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Boundaries, Betrayal, and Building Back Trust
Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole

Boundaries, Betrayal, and Building Back Trust

Infidelity or betrayal in marriage can feel like a nuclear explosion—devastating, disorienting, and leaving a mess of emotions and broken trust in its wake. But what if we told you that betrayal doesn’t have to be the end of your story?

In this episode of Needed Conversations, we walk through the difficult process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. Whether you're facing infidelity, financial secrecy, addiction, or another form of deep hurt, there is hope for restoration. Here are some key takeaways from our conversation:

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How To Fight Fair In Marriage
Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole

How To Fight Fair In Marriage

In marriage, it’s easy to dream together—but how do you actually set goals and stick to them when life gets busy, challenges arise, and you and your spouse may not always see eye to eye?

In this blog, we’re tackling the power of personal commitment and how it affects not only your individual growth but also the strength of your marriage. Many couples struggle with unrealistic expectations, frustration over a lack of support, and the constant battle between personal purpose and marital unity.

So how do you move forward? How do you stay committed to your own goals while also supporting your spouse in theirs?

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You Can't Change Your Spouse, But You Can Do This...
Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole

You Can't Change Your Spouse, But You Can Do This...

In marriage, it’s easy to dream together—but how do you actually set goals and stick to them when life gets busy, challenges arise, and you and your spouse may not always see eye to eye?

In this blog, we’re tackling the power of personal commitment and how it affects not only your individual growth but also the strength of your marriage. Many couples struggle with unrealistic expectations, frustration over a lack of support, and the constant battle between personal purpose and marital unity.

So how do you move forward? How do you stay committed to your own goals while also supporting your spouse in theirs?

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A Better Marriage Starts With You
Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole

A Better Marriage Starts With You

"Commitment to yourself is the key to a thriving marriage, personal growth, and spiritual fulfillment. Inspired by an episode of their podcast Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss how aligning your daily habits with God's purpose leads to transformation. Learn how to overcome self-sabotage, eliminate distractions, and build healthy rhythms that strengthen your faith and relationships. Discover why Jesus modeled solitude and self-discipline—and how you can apply these principles to your life. Don't let doubt or busyness keep you from your calling! Read more at MoreMostForever.com."

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2025 Ministry Update: The Battle is Over & The Building Has Begun
Empowerment Ryan Cole Empowerment Ryan Cole

2025 Ministry Update: The Battle is Over & The Building Has Begun

Over the last several years, Viktoriya and I have been experiencing an extraordinary and accelerated growth process. At the end of 2021, we officially launched Empowered Culture Ministries and set off on a journey to empower as many as we could by preaching the Gospel of the Kingdom. While we teach on a variety of Kingdom principles, God has focused our ministry these last three years on helping couples understand the biblical model for marriage. This has been some of the most rewarding work we have done in ministry.

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Dealing with Assumptions, Offense, & Intrusive Thoughts In Marriage
Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole Marriage, Relationships Ryan Cole

Dealing with Assumptions, Offense, & Intrusive Thoughts In Marriage

In marriage, becoming offended is inevitable. It’s what you choose to do when you get offended that makes all the difference and determines whether you will grow stronger as a couple or break down. One common cause for an offense is the formation of grudges born out of unspoken assumptions and miscommunications. To navigate these challenges and foster a healthier, stronger relationship, we have come up with a three-step strategy to help you squash offenses quickly and have a marriage built on the foundation of grace and mercy.

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